tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19488999.post511015357291176877..comments2020-05-26T09:01:07.407-05:00Comments on thinkmarriage.org: Emotional Affairsthinkmarriage.orghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07636786289423645520noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19488999.post-18706353898451062142009-06-02T14:10:31.620-05:002009-06-02T14:10:31.620-05:00Thanks for the URLs I will check them out, and I w...Thanks for the URLs I will check them out, and I will also let you know what happens.Jstnthrgalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07193952146844534555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19488999.post-48192960720367543562009-06-02T12:39:03.107-05:002009-06-02T12:39:03.107-05:00Hello Susie,
I'm sorry for the pain of having to e...Hello Susie,<br />I'm sorry for the pain of having to experience an emotional affair.<br />I'm going to recommend a Redbook article because it quotes Steven Stosney, a Ph.d and Author who may give you some insight about what you can do. He wrote an excellent booked called "How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It."<br />Here's the article: <br />http://cli.gs/a8Y2XR<br />If your husband will not seek out help for this situation then be sure and seek it out for yourself. Don't quit working on the situation. Please let us know what happens...and I hope you will continue to pursue avenues to help you with the current circumstances. Many people have gone on to have successful happy relationships after these types of behaviors. http://www.beyondaffairs.com/<br />This is another resource to explore.<br />Take care.thinkmarriage.orghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07636786289423645520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19488999.post-51352330341637924412009-06-02T12:12:16.359-05:002009-06-02T12:12:16.359-05:00I currently living this, only I can't seem to make...I currently living this, only I can't seem to make him understand. My husband contacted an ex last year and has been talking to her ever since. There has been months when there is no contact then there is months that there are 4-12 calls ranging from 15 mins to about 2 hours. When I question him I always get the story she is 300 miles away, I am not doing anything. His latest is that it is just his escape from reality, like when I read a book. When I bring it up I am the crazy over jealous wife. He says I should not be jealous he is here with me, not there with her. I don't see that as the case, but what can I realistically do. I don't want to leave him. Your article really hit home. I wish I could get my husband to understand.Jstnthrgalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07193952146844534555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19488999.post-58339572371018542009-06-02T11:25:59.600-05:002009-06-02T11:25:59.600-05:00Thanks for the insight Dana...the more we as a who...Thanks for the insight Dana...the more we as a whole can promote the importance of marriage, the more everyone...single or married, will value it and support it, including the issue you bring up. Keep blogging!thinkmarriage.orghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07636786289423645520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19488999.post-64755842248322462342009-06-02T11:23:01.948-05:002009-06-02T11:23:01.948-05:00I absolutely agree with this, and both people have...I absolutely agree with this, and both people have to take responsibility. Unfortunately, I think single girls are a huge culprit- starved for attention and relationships, they reach out to the wrong people. I know both genders are guilty, but most of the time I see married men trying to help a single girl in distress, and it becomes something they didn't intend. It's a married person's responsibility proactively prevent that type of emotional intimacy and not mislead, but it's also the single person's responsibility to respect marriage.Dana Twichellnoreply@blogger.com