Did you ever hear your parents say: don’t tell dad or don’t tell mom? How did that affect your future dance with money?
As money gets tighter for just about everyone, money attitudes are really coming to the surface for many couples.
Here’s a great “game” and program that can get you talking about your money “habitudes” as the game refers to them in a way to that is productive and sensitive. It's called Money Habitudes. Rather than just thinking the other person is wrong or crazy, money habitudes points you towards goals and commonalities.
Invented by Syble Solomon, her game was the result of her interest in couple’s inability to have little or no communication about how they came to money decisions.
She found that people run the gamut from keeping their spending a secret, knowing what is healthy but choosing not to spend money that way and spouses who have no interest in managing money and being totally clueless about their financial future.
Making the learning available in a card game format helps people engage in productive conversations about money and understand the habits and attitudes that influence their actions and decisions regarding money. There are versions for teens and couples.
What a great engagement or wedding gift idea!
If you are a couple struggling with talking about money, Money Habitudes could put you on the right path, and you just might have some fun along the way.
Blog question: Are you able to talk about money as a couple? What “habitudes” did you automatically bring to your marriage that caused some problems and how have you dealt with them ?