Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Undateable People? We’re Looking At the Wrong Thing

posted by Michele Olson
Ellen Rakieten and Anne Coyle have written a book called Undateable. It’s about the things guys do that will lessen their chances of getting a date. The sad thing is; the reasons not to date these types of guys are all quite superficial. The book concentrates on things like guys wearing Speedos, dirty baseball caps, pointy shoes or having ill-advised facial hair.

What’s missing is the importance of understanding people’s character and upbringing before you make any kind of commitment. Every guy and gal hoping to marry and in the process of dating should be concentrating less on what people eat or how they spell and more on who they are inside.

The best thing you can do as a dater is to attend a How to Avoid Falling in Love with a
Jerk(ette) workshop. In this workshop you’ll learn the importance of building a safe relationship while knowing what to look for in a dating partner. You should be thinking about the dynamics of trust, reliance, commitment and sexual touch before you enter into a relationship. It’s possible to be very smart about dating. It's also a good workshop if you are currently dating someone.

Don’t leave your dating choices to chance. The perfect person for you may actually start out with spinach in their teeth, but possess a heart of gold. Educate yourself and avoid a lot of future heartache.

There’s a no jerk’s workshop starting April 5th in Green Bay. Why not sign up?

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